Celebrating the life of
Barbara Norman Hetherington
September 25, 1939 - October 16, 2009
Barbara Norman Hetherington
SAVANNAH – Barbara Norman Hetherington died October 16, 2009 at home after a long illness, under the care of Hospice Savannah.
Born in Millville, New Jersey, in 1939, Barbara moved with her family to Pennsauken, New Jersey, as a teenager. Barbara and Thomas Avery Hetherington were married on June 23, 1962, and lived in Pensacola, Florida, San Diego, California, and Durham, North Carolina, before moving to Savannah, Georgia in 1970.
Barbara was a Registered Nurse, graduating from the Presbyterian Hospital School of Nursing in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. She worked as a public health nurse in Philadelphia and a pediatric nurse in Florida and San Diego. After the birth of their first daughter, Barbara chose to be a stay at home mom. She later earned a BA in Political Science and a Masters in Health Science Education at Armstrong Atlantic State University, in Savannah, Georgia, and was the first director of the Skidaway Marine Science Foundation.
An elder and active volunteer at her church, her children's school and in the community, she worked with a number of social service and cultural organizations, serving on boards, in service projects, and in fundraising efforts. Among these are the Auxiliary to the Georgia Medical Society, SAFE Shelter, Hope House, the American Cancer Society, the Savannah Symphony Society, and the Savannah Symphony Women's Guild, where she served as president for one year. Her church, First Presbyterian of Savannah, was especially important to her and her family and she spent many happy times helping in a number of ways over the years. Barbara was an avid reader and a long time member of a local book club. She also enjoyed playing bridge with friends, and doing daily crossword puzzles.
Barbara was preceded in death by her mother, Alberta Mackey, her father, Robert Alfred Norman, her twin sister, Patricia Elizabeth Norman, and her step-mother, June West Norman.
She is survived by her dear husband, Thomas Avery Hetherington, her precious daughters and sons in law, Susan and Badr Ibrahim, Sharon and Bob McAllister, Katherine and Christopher Risdon, and her special joys, her grandchildren, Alex and Joseph Ibrahim and Avery and Olivia McAllister, and her brother, Robert Alvah Norman.
Her family wants to express their thanks and appreciation to the many physicians that cared for her over the years, especially Dr. Anthony Costrini.
Following a private interment, a Memorial Service will be held at First Presbyterian Church of Savannah, 520 Washington Ave., on Tuesday, October 20, 2009, at 12:00 Noon. A reception to greet the family will be held in Stewart Hall following the Memorial Service.
In lieu of flowers please consider donations to the First Presbyterian Church of Savannah, Hospice Savannah, or the American Lung Association.
to father who always be in our heart. we miss you alot and love you bunch we know yo looking up in heaven look down at us
- kim reese, louisville, KY
My condolences to you the family of Barbara, and to that I add the sympathies of many of our classmates from Merchantville High School who knew and loved her as 'Bobby.' She and her sister Patty live in our memories as friendy, outgoing, caring teen-agers. I will always be grateful for Barbara's friendship and for those years together. Mary-Lynn Kevolic Ricketts and Merchantville High School Class of 1958
- Mary-Lynn Kevolic Ricketts, Merchantville,, NJ
Dear Dr. Tom and Family, We were so saddened to read of Barbara's passing. We have so missed seeing you both. We have known you both since we arrived in Sav. in 1979. We had so much fun with all the Symphony activities. Barbara was extremely active, a very gracious lady,and a very proficient person. She will be greatly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with Barbara, you and all the family God Bless you all.
- Marie and Bill Robinson, Savannah, GA
Dr. Hetherington and family - We are so saddened at the loss of Mrs. Hetherington. We know how much she was loved. We have such great memories of our time in Savannah for Sharon and Bob's wedding, and how she made us feel so at home. God Bless her and your family - our thoughts and prayers are with you.
- Chris and Amy Thornton, North Grafton, MA
May your cherished memories comfort you during this difficult time. With deepest sympathy, The Hammonds Derek, Kim, Reese and Luke
- Derek and Kim Hammond, Cumming, GA
Condolences to the family.
- BARBARA H. MCCOY, Savannah, GA
Dr. Hetherington and Girls, I was so sorry to hear about Mrs. Hetherington. She was such a refined and dignified lady. She was a truly a gracious and wonderful person. My thouhts and prayers are with you all. With deepest sympathy, Celeste Montgonery
- Celeste Montgomery, Savannah, GA
Dear Kathy, Susan, Sharon and Dr. Hetherington, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I have wonderful memories of Mrs. Hetherington and your family. I am praying for God's love to meet your needs as only He can. Love, Ashley
- Ashley Forbes Colley, savannah, GA
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I love you, Kathy, and am praying for all of you. May God grant you His peace. Love, Ruthie
- Ruthie Mitchell Bagnal, Greenville, NC
DR HETHERINGTON AND GIRLS I WAS SO SORRY TO HEAR OF BARBARA PASSING. I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HER COMING IN TO SAVANNAH RADIOLOGY WITH HER BEAUTIFUL SMILE AND STOPPING TO TALK WITH THERESA AND I..SHE WAS A SPECIAL LADY. MY PRAYERS,LOVE AND THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU AND THE GIRLS. MAY GOD BLESS YOU LOVE LYDIA
- LYDIA, ROANOKE RAPIDS, GA
I am so sorry for your loss. Barbara was such a sweet lady and will be truly missed. You and your family will be in our prayers. May God give you strength and peace during the days ahead.
- Joyce Broughan, Richmond Hill, GA
Tom, Susan, Sharon and Kathy, I am so saddened by your loss of Barbara. She was a wonderful person and a joy to know. I share in your loss and your have my deepest condolences.
- John M Fillingim MD, AUSTIN, TX
Dr. Hetherington: I was so sorry to learn of Barbara's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Lora Chance Warnell
- Lora Chance Warnell, Bakersville, NC
to father who always be in our heart. we miss you alot and love you bunch we know yo looking up in heaven look down at us
- kim reese, louisville, KY
My condolences to you the family of Barbara, and to that I add the sympathies of many of our classmates from Merchantville High School who knew and loved her as 'Bobby.' She and her sister Patty live in our memories as friendy, outgoing, caring teen-agers. I will always be grateful for Barbara's friendship and for those years together. Mary-Lynn Kevolic Ricketts and Merchantville High School Class of 1958
- Mary-Lynn Kevolic Ricketts, Merchantville,, NJ
Dear Dr. Tom and Family, We were so saddened to read of Barbara's passing. We have so missed seeing you both. We have known you both since we arrived in Sav. in 1979. We had so much fun with all the Symphony activities. Barbara was extremely active, a very gracious lady,and a very proficient person. She will be greatly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with Barbara, you and all the family God Bless you all.
- Marie and Bill Robinson, Savannah, GA
Dr. Hetherington and family - We are so saddened at the loss of Mrs. Hetherington. We know how much she was loved. We have such great memories of our time in Savannah for Sharon and Bob's wedding, and how she made us feel so at home. God Bless her and your family - our thoughts and prayers are with you.
- Chris and Amy Thornton, North Grafton, MA
May your cherished memories comfort you during this difficult time. With deepest sympathy, The Hammonds Derek, Kim, Reese and Luke
- Derek and Kim Hammond, Cumming, GA
Condolences to the family.
- BARBARA H. MCCOY, Savannah, GA
Dr. Hetherington and Girls, I was so sorry to hear about Mrs. Hetherington. She was such a refined and dignified lady. She was a truly a gracious and wonderful person. My thouhts and prayers are with you all. With deepest sympathy, Celeste Montgonery
- Celeste Montgomery, Savannah, GA
Dear Kathy, Susan, Sharon and Dr. Hetherington, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I have wonderful memories of Mrs. Hetherington and your family. I am praying for God's love to meet your needs as only He can. Love, Ashley
- Ashley Forbes Colley, savannah, GA
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I love you, Kathy, and am praying for all of you. May God grant you His peace. Love, Ruthie
- Ruthie Mitchell Bagnal, Greenville, NC
DR HETHERINGTON AND GIRLS I WAS SO SORRY TO HEAR OF BARBARA PASSING. I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HER COMING IN TO SAVANNAH RADIOLOGY WITH HER BEAUTIFUL SMILE AND STOPPING TO TALK WITH THERESA AND I..SHE WAS A SPECIAL LADY. MY PRAYERS,LOVE AND THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU AND THE GIRLS. MAY GOD BLESS YOU LOVE LYDIA
- LYDIA, ROANOKE RAPIDS, GA
I am so sorry for your loss. Barbara was such a sweet lady and will be truly missed. You and your family will be in our prayers. May God give you strength and peace during the days ahead.
- Joyce Broughan, Richmond Hill, GA
Tom, Susan, Sharon and Kathy, I am so saddened by your loss of Barbara. She was a wonderful person and a joy to know. I share in your loss and your have my deepest condolences.
- John M Fillingim MD, AUSTIN, TX
Dr. Hetherington: I was so sorry to learn of Barbara's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Lora Chance Warnell
- Lora Chance Warnell, Bakersville, NC
Services under the direction of:
Fox & Weeks Funeral Directors, Hodgson Chapel
912-352-7200
